Friday, February 24, 2006
SAM is so into hmph hmph
hahaha. she is so gaga over him hahahahah
Mr janson(thank me that your name is mention here)
urged me to update this blog
though i just updated yesterday
it seem not enough aint it
hence i shall find something to blog about
anyway am having mood swing today
was happy for a few mins and then was angry for a few minutes
guess a tired girl is a angry girl
hm. have been very interested in what we called the subconsious mind
many a times people would ask us to think out of the box
so wat does this box means?
the 'box' is the sub-conscious mind
It is the repository of all life's experiences, memories, feelings.
We have experienced the joy of being appreciated,
the disappointment of what we consider as a failure,
sorrow of losing a chance and myriad other feelings.
The feelings and experience of all the events in our lives
are deposited in our sub-conscious mind.
Very early in our lives the collection of past events,
experience and feelings
in our sub-conscious mind becomes so weighty
that sub-conscious mind develops control over us
influencing our day-to-day affairs,
the way we assess ourselves,
the way we behave,
the way we think, in fact our very being.
Sub-consciously we form opinion about ourselves,
we "decide" who we are and how much we "deserve".
In a way we take it for granted that we cannot go beyond what we think we are.
This creates inhibition, hesitation, a limiting boundary and the box.
Our sub-conscious zone is really a comfort zone for us where we tend to go again and again.
We take comfort in re-living our past,
in re-living our experience even if the memories of the past are not always pleasant.
Everything that happens around us in our present lives tends to reinforce our sub-conscious belief because this is how we interpret the present events.
Human potential is really not limited to our self-imposed restrictions.
We have the power to go beyond the limitation defined by the box.
Yet the box constitutes the comfort zone we are reluctant to leave.
The sub-conscious mind conspires with the surroundings to maintain us at the present level of being,
and we contribute to this effort.
To think out of the box is to make conscious effort to go past the limitations and reach out to the unlimited potential present in each of us.
There is no reason why anyone should live within self-imposed limitation. Simply by modifying conscious thinking one can change oneself.
